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Today’s Health Upgrade
Could your gut health be the key to better sleep?
Why your best intentions don’t work out (and how to rewire your approach for success)
The conflict that makes you better
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Your Gut Might Be the Missing Link to Better Sleep
We usually think of digestion when we talk about gut health, but your gut bacteria might also influence another essential part of the health equation.
Research suggests that certain gut bacteria may help you sleep longer, while others might make it harder to fall or stay asleep.
Scientists analyzed genetic data from more than 400,000 people and identified 14 types of bacteria associated with sleep patterns. Some bacteria, like Lachnospiraceae UCG004 and Odoribacter, were linked to better and longer sleep, while others, such as Selenomonadales and Negativicutes, were associated with insomnia and fatigue.
The study hints at a relationship between the gut and brain, where what’s happening in your stomach can influence your sleep hormones and rhythms. But it’s still early science, so probiotics aren’t a proven fix just yet, and we need more clinical trials before targeting your gut becomes a proven sleep fix.
For now, the simplest takeaway is this: a healthy gut may help you sleep better.
The best way to build a strong foundation for gut health is to increase your fiber intake. You can do so with fiber-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains.
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The Friction That Quietly Kills Your Best Intentions
Most people don’t quit their goals. They get slowed, then stalled, and then stuck.
It’s rarely dramatic. There’s no big declaration of defeat. Instead, it’s death by a thousand paper cuts. And suddenly, the “right” choice feels harder than it should.
Here’s the part most people miss: Behavior scientists don’t blame a lack of motivation when habits fail. They blame friction.
According to the Fogg Behavior Model, behavior only happens when motivation, ability, and a prompt line up. And here’s the trap: motivation can be high, but if ability drops even a little — if the task feels annoying, inconvenient, or mentally taxing — then behavior collapses.
Not because you stopped caring. Because your system made it harder than it needed to be.
Another study of human behavior, known as choice architecture, shows the same pattern. Tiny inconveniences compound. Each one nudges you toward the default option: skip it, delay it, do it tomorrow.
In other words, habits don’t fail because of motivation or desire. They fail because of too many small obstacles that make it easy for you not to do what you want to do.
That’s where systems matter more than willpower. So how do you know if you actually have a system or you’re just relying on good intentions?
A real system has three traits. First, it reduces decisions. You shouldn’t have to think about what comes next. If you’re asking yourself, “Where’s my stuff?” or “What do I need today?” you don’t have a system, you have a guessing game.
Second, it survives bad days. Motivation works on good days. Systems work when you’re tired, rushed, stressed, or behind. If one late meeting or one chaotic morning can knock you off track, the system isn’t strong enough yet.
Third, it makes the right choice the default. The easier option should also be the better option. When your environment quietly nudges you forward without pep talks or discipline, you’ve built something that lasts.
A simple gut check: If tomorrow were messy, loud, and unpredictable, would your habits still happen?
If the answer is no, that’s not a character flaw. It’s just a signal that your environment needs less resistance.
That’s why we think about tools as supporting the system, not replacing it. KNKG is one example of friction removal done right.
Not because it motivates you, but because it eliminates the tiny obstacles that pile up and removes the micro-excuses that quietly derail consistency.
No rummaging. No decision fatigue. No “I’ll deal with it later.” This isn’t about carrying more. It’s about thinking less.
Because when the friction disappears, consistency stops feeling heroic and starts feeling automatic.
If your goals matter, don’t wait for motivation to save you. Remove the resistance before it shows up.
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The Conflict That Makes You (And Your Children) Better
We often think that arguments between parents harm kids. But new research suggests that it’s not whether parents fight. It’s how they fight that determines the quality of their relationship and shapes a child’s emotional intelligence, stress management, and even their future relationships.
Children who witness constructive conflict — respectful, problem-solving conversations — tend to develop better emotional regulation, social skills, and mental health.
Researchers explored whether kids could learn something positive from watching their parents disagree. Specifically, they studied the effects of constructive interparental conflict, which involves a calm tone, mutual respect, cooperation, and resolution, rather than yelling, hostility, or silent treatment.
They examined how different styles of conflict affected children’s internal and external behavior, stress responses, and coping strategies.
Kids who witnessed constructive parental conflict were more likely to display empathy and cooperation. They also had lower levels of anxiety, aggression, and depression compared to kids exposed to destructive conflict.
Constructive conflict helped model problem-solving and emotional regulation, giving kids real-life scripts for managing their own future disagreements.
Not to mention, children who observed constructive conflict were better equipped to handle stress and had stronger relationships with both parents. In some cases, the positive effects were comparable to those of kids raised in households with little to no conflict.
Researchers believe this is because constructive conflict offers a “live demo” of how to navigate tension, stay respectful, and find resolution — all essential life skills. Unlike shielding children from all disagreements (which can be unrealistic), healthy conflict teaches that problems can be resolved and relationships can grow stronger as a result.
But this isn’t just for parents: it’s a reminder not to stress over every disagreement. Instead, focus on how you resolve it. Stay calm, listen actively, and show mutual respect. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being real, emotionally present, and solution-focused.
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The One Habit That Quietly Improves Your Diet (Without Trying)
Most people think better eating starts in the kitchen. More meal prep. More willpower. More rules.
But long-term data suggests that there’s another habit that could improve your eating: if you start moving your body and exercising consistently, your food choices often improve on their own.
Researchers analyzed more than 6,000 adults over 13 years, from adolescence into their 30s. They focused on two questions:
When people exercise more, do they also eat more fruits and vegetables at the same time?
Does exercising now predict better eating habits years later?
This wasn’t an intervention. No one was told what to eat or how to train. Researchers simply observed how habits changed together over time.
People who increased exercise also ate more fruits and vegetables.
They say you can’t out-exercise a bad diet, but it appears you might be able to exercise your way to a healthier diet thanks to something known as the “transfer effect.”
When you build consistency in one area (exercise), you strengthen self-regulation skills — planning, follow-through, identity — that spill into other behaviors.
You don’t suddenly crave vegetables. You start acting like someone who takes care of themselves.
If diet is a struggle, start with movement, not perfection. Exercise can create momentum, but it won’t fix nutrition on its own. As exercise becomes more routine, then you can layer in specific nutrition goals.
Small wins stack. And sometimes, the best way to eat better is to start moving first.
Better Today
Take any of these tips from today’s email and put them into action:
1. The Bacteria That Might Help Improve Sleep Quality (And the Ones That Don't)
A genetic analysis of more than 400,000 people identified 14 gut bacteria linked to sleep, including Lachnospiraceae UCG004 and Odoribacter (associated with longer, better sleep) and Selenomonadales and Negativicutes (linked to insomnia and fatigue). The research is still early, but the simplest way to support gut health now is to add more fiber from fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains.
2. The 3 Signs You Have a Real System For Better Habits (Not Just Good Intentions)
According to the Fogg Behavior Model, habits collapse when ability drops — even if motivation stays high — because small inconveniences compound into resistance. A real system has three traits: it reduces decisions, survives bad days, and makes the right choice the default. If one chaotic morning can derail you, the problem isn't discipline; it's friction.
3. Kids Who See Parents Resolve Conflict Show Lower Anxiety and Better Social Skills
How you argue matters. Research found that children who witness constructive conflict — calm tone, mutual respect, and resolution — develop better emotional regulation, lower anxiety, and stronger social skills than those exposed to hostile arguments. The effects were comparable to those of children raised in low-conflict households. But it’s not just advice for parents. It’s valuable for any type of conflict. The point isn't to avoid disagreements; it's to resolve them well and understand how to navigate tension.
4. 13-Year Study: Exercise Predicts Better Eating Habits (Even Years Later)
Researchers tracked more than 6,000 adults over 13 years and found that people who increased exercise also ate more fruits and vegetables, and that exercising now predicted better eating habits years later. This "transfer effect" happens because building consistency in one area strengthens self-regulation skills that spill into other behaviors. If diet feels like a struggle, start with movement, and let your small wins give you momentum that leads to other behavioral changes.
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Publisher: Arnold Schwarzenegger
Editors-in-chief: Adam Bornstein and Daniel Ketchell
